
Day 1 – Ballymena – July 2
The plan had always been to spend a few nights in Northern Ireland visiting Elizabeth’s Grandmother’s side of the family the McMullans. However, the matriarch and mother of our host had fallen ill and was beginning the process of passing from this world. We planned to skip the north not wanting to impose on the family in this time of mourning and head straight to Scotland. Elizabeth Irish relatives would not accept this insisting this was a natural part of life and we should come up none the less being very apologetic they wouldn’t be able to spend as much time with us. Irish people celebrate the life of a person more than mourn their death and they insisted the Matriarch would be upset if we didn’t come.
We agreed and trained from Dublin to Belfast on a 2.5-hour journey that weaved along the western coast through green countryside. A cup of tea, and some time to catch up on rest and writing, brought us into Belfast in the midafternoon. We then hopped on the short rail trip to Sydenham. While on route the bathroom door wouldn’t close; this didn’t stop one man from using it anyway. He asked the man sitting across from it if he was alright with the endeavor, but the train conductor was not as lenient. After a brief, but intense, verbal altercation where the man berated and challenged the train conductor, he stormed back to his seat. His wife came back, ostensibly to apologize for his behavior and explain how their daughter was in the hospital, but it did little to assuage the conductor. Oof, welcome to the UK. From there we took a courtesy shuttle to the Belfast City Airport to collect our rental car then we hoped on the roads towards Corkey where Elizabeth’s cousin (technically second cousin twice removed, if our genealogy math is correct), Mary Connolly, was letting us stay for a few nights. She lives in an absolutely gorgeous and quaint house nestled deep in the rolling hills of County Antrim. She couldn’t be a more gracious host and had a delicious Thanksgiving-style feast waiting for us when we arrived consisting of stuffed chicken, potatoes, carrots and asparagus, with soda bread – all smothered in a delicious brown gravy. We chatted with Mary as she educated us on Irish history, the troubles and Ireland culture. Bellies full and exhausted from carousing for a week straight, we decided to call it a relatively early night; we were asleep by midnight.

Day 2 – Giant’s Causeway – July 3
Waking up at 0930, we needed to go for a run to reinvigorate our bodies, still trying to purge the gallons of Guinness coursing through our veins from Dublin. Mary and her family live along two mountains, her brothers own the farmland on both sides, where they primarily raise sheep. We jogged along the steep slopes of the mountain taking in the lush green grass and scaring the sheep.

Mary being the ever-gracious host had a lavish breakfast laid out for us consisting of granola, two styles of yogurt, milk, pure orange (OJ), and fresh fruit. After stuffing us full she asked if we needed eggs or bacon to round out the meal. We politely declined, then asked her for recommendations regarding sites nearby. She recommended a few interesting walks/hikes, Bushmills Distillery and local shops, including the Giant’s Causeway, a sight we had already intended to visit.
We then set off to investigate the Giant’s Causeway, an interesting geologic site and how it formed. Roughly 60 million years ago an extrusion of basaltic lava formed a wide plateau which then cooled in a unique manner which allowed the basalt to crystallize in a similar way to how mud cracks form when water evaporates. This process produced the beautiful columns we see today.

There is, however, a much more believable Irish explanation. Finn McCool, a giant, was building a causeway from Northern Ireland to Scotland by throwing these rock pillars into the ocean. On the Scottish side lived another giant Benandonner – who also threw these rocks, and the explanation for why the pillars also exist over there. The distance between them shrunk as the causeway formed and McCool saw how much larger the Scottish giant was than himself. Finn had his wife dress him up as a baby and tuck him in bed. When Benandonner arrived to the Emerald Isle he saw Finn’s wife and the large baby and immediately turned away, declaring “if this is the size of his son, Finn must be the largest giant alive!” and destroyed most of the bridge during his retreat.

Whichever is true, the area is absolutely stunning and a marvel to behold. We hiked up and around a few of the cliffs and enjoyed the great views. The edge to the sea is very steep and a large staircase (the shepherds’ staircase) led us out of the shore. Once we were at the top, a sign read: imagine carrying sheep up this steep hill before the stairs were built. Hard pass.

We attempted to see Dunseverick Castle and Waterfalls. Google Maps led us astray however and rather than keep searching, we decided to grab a couple of pints in Ballycastle in typical Elizabeth and Ryan fashion. We popped into the Boyd Arms and shared some Harp and Guinness with a very welcoming bartender and some stereotypical locals. With thick northern brogues and jovial attitudes, they swapped stories and caught up on the local goings-on. Certainly, a dream come true for Ryan. We then returned to Mary’s down the narrow roads and did our best to avoid the other driver’s flying down the blind turns and she had a delicious lamb stew waiting for us. Another dream of Ryan’s coming true, homemade Irish stew in a countryside cottage. We snuggled into bed to watch an episode of Game of Thrones before falling asleep. We are only just beginning the show but everywhere we go in Ireland and in Iceland there are huge tours of things that were filmed for the show in these areas.

Day 3 – Glenariff Forest Park – July 4
From our open window every morning and every night we feel the cool breeze of 50-degree weather and hear baas and moos of the livestock – it’s such a refreshing way to begin and end the day! We went down for breakfast and met Mary’s eldest daughter Sara. Sara had been on a cruise through the Mediterranean, home from a teaching break from Qatar, but came back early for her grandmother. We had a delicious cooked breakfast with thick bacon and pancakes learning all about the middle-east from Sara. They gave us a long list of potential hiking areas to chose from. They live just south of the Glens of Antrim. This area is composed of nine glens – a glen being a lush valley – that stretch to the shores. We decided to visit Glenariff Forest Park. Glenariff – the Queen of the Glens – is a beautiful forested area with long trails and waterfalls. We paid the 5 pounds and ventured into the woods. We hiked the long scenic trail first that took us up 325 m of elevation with great views of the forest, wildflowers, and the coast.


The entire hike was around 9 km and brought us right back to the parking lot. After a quick refresh (ice cream, chips, candy, and gummies) we did the 3 km waterfall hike. We almost skipped it but I am so grateful we didn’t. You descend steeply down towards the river then get on a boardwalk that zigs across the stream surrounded by very green vegetation. The waterfalls were very beautiful and it reminded me of walking through the jungle – but with a reasonable temperature.


By then it was dinner time and we were excited for another Mary homecooked dinner. She made us chicken curry, you know how much we love Indian food, which we ate with soda bread and rice. We lounged in the living room watching a UK comedy show 8 out of 10 Cats – which we partially understood before turning in for the night. These days have been a much-needed chance to unwind and we loved being able to stay in an actual house with privacy and not sharing a room with a bunch of strangers. I’m sure our hosts thought we were losers content to lounge on the couch and get a late start most mornings.
Day 4 – Ballycastle – July 5
We had our laziest start yet Friday morning. We got up to a delicious breakfast then spent a few hours just hanging out with Sara and making her talk to us. We didn’t leave until around 1 pm then headed north again to explore. We stopped by a Hurler makers shop. Hurling is a huge sport up here and uses a hurl or a large wooden paddle. We got lucky that the owner happened to be around the shop when we arrived since he didn’t have tours anymore -but he let us look in his shop and gave us an order Mary had placed to deliver to her.

Our next stop was a Game of Thrones filming location called the Dark Hedges. It’s a narrow road with gorgeous twisted trees on either side that create a tunnel. We wandered through with GOT fanatics reading all the carved names in the trees.

Next we headed towards the Carrick-a-Rede rope bridge, which connects the mainland to a small island primarily used for fishing. Elizabeth visited on her first trip and the crowds have greatly grown since then. The car park was another Game of Thrones filming location and it was funny to listen to the avid fans wander through excitingly discussing who stabbed who against this backdrop. We hiked around the coast and caught views of Scotland when the fog lifted then decided the 10 pound fee to cross a bridge per person was not something we were interested in.

We piled back into the car and headed to the town of Ballycastle – where my family “goes into town.” We wandered through the grocery stores trying to find a gift for our gracious host and some medicine for Ryan who was dealing with a cold. Sara told us she loves prosecco so we found as many bottles as we could.
We popped into Sara’s favorite restaurant/bar called O’Connor’s. We enjoyed pints and seafood and watched the locals pour in Friday after work. We also saw several businesses in this town with the name Donnelly – Ryan’s grandmothers maiden name. It began to rain – our first real rain since arriving in Ireland so we decided, snacks and prosecco in tow, to head back to Mary’s for our final night on the farm. She’d made us bolognaise and we got to meet a family friend as they headed back to the hospital to care for the Matriarch. We are going to miss this comfort and feeling of home.

Day 5 – Belfast – July 6
We woke up and went for a final long run past the fields and sheep. Passing an old man who shouted out of breath “it’s not worth it!” We again took our time getting on the road and spent the morning chatting with Mary and Sara and Mary’s hairdresser who came to do her hair. We told Sara we’d come visit her in Qatar and told her to find us in Oman. We tried to convince them to come visit us in the states enticing them with stories of Thanksgiving and Texan Honkey Tonks- they might be sold. It was time to say our good-byes and we made the hour journey south to Belfast.

We stopped at a bouldering gym there so Ryan could get his pump on – Boulder World Belfast. The place was decently crowded and it took us a while to figure out the numbering and colored tape system. We only lasted about an hour until we were tired and pretty hungry.

We found our hostel – Global Village in the University part of town and wandered the streets to find our dinner restaurant Nu Delhi. The Indian food was delicious and we enjoyed drinking Cobra and splitting Korma with other curries. We wandered back to the hostel then drank hot tea and played cards on the back patio until we were tired. The sun still set’s pretty late here – after 11:30, but still better than Iceland. The next morning we were leaving Ireland behind and heading to Scotland, just as we’d gotten used to one accent it was time to switch to another.
Things we learned in Northern Ireland:
- Everyone born in Northern Ireland has the right to a UK and Irish passport.
- Favorite sports are Hurling, Gaelic Football, and Camogie.
- When Brexit was first announced all the protestant loyalist went to get Irish passports.


























































